Eye contact

Making eye contact is important mostly in business transactions or dealing with your fellow men than being an irritating talkative jerk trying to express something. Eye contact is really important when dealing with your fellow men without saying anything; Eye contact means or says a lot.

Have you ever experience being eye contact by a person you have converse with? , Or vice versa? But is eye contact good or bad for you or to the person you have made eye contact with? The good or bad impression depends upon the interpretation of the person you have made eye contact with. If the person that has made eye contact with you or you have made eye contact with interprets differently from what you intentionally means, well that is his or her problem. Some people sometimes have negative impressions if someone made an eye contact with them; they misinterpret it to be a form of hypnotisms thus some avoids making eye contact or avoiding eye contact.  

The importance of eye contact or good eye contact cannot be diminish or dismiss lightly by a person who understands the value or importance of eye contact. Eye contact could mean aggression or dominance to some, but to others it can be sign of fondness of the person to you. However, this depends upon the sexes, that is, it depends upon if you are a man or woman. The eye contact of man is quietly different from women’s eye contact. When a man gives you a shot of eye contact if you are also a man, which means he signals that he is more powerful and strong than you. Thus, sometimes men who understand this kind of contact from their fellow men, they got irritated and offended which then end up in a bullying fight. But this only happens to Alpha males or very straight males, and male chauvinist males. For to some effeminate or not so straight males, this signals that their fellow men have interest on them or sometimes interpreted as “crush” (admiration) to them, wherein some leads to homosexual one night stand. This homosexual interpretation to his fellow men’s eye contact is also similar when a straight man made an eye contact with a woman. And women also do the same thing to men whom they are interested with. But sometimes the male chauvinist males misinterpret this kind of women eye contact; they interpret it as an offense to their maleness.

However, to non-male chauvinist male, the stare of a women makes their self-confidence boost because it signals them that this woman has an interest or attracted to them or in other way they sense that this woman is a strong woman which eventually attracts some men. For some non-male chauvinist are mostly attracted to a strong woman than to a weaker woman.

However, interpretation of eye contact can be varied to many people; people misinterpret sometimes your eye contact with them no matter how good eye contact you made with them, many avoid such eye contacts in fear of something like what I mention above. Thus, by avoiding eye contact many looses their chances or good opportunities in life like in business transactions and applying for a job and meeting good strong people that could help you in your life. Lack of eye contact could really miss some opportunities what I mention a while ago. But to some who knows the importance of eye contact, they gave their best eye contact ever especially in business transactions to signals success.